Okay..heres my take
Generally people who oppose Gays and Gay marriage...do so on theological grounds...
If we are to accept the validity of this argument...and we accept the validity of theology or at least the theology present in the bible...we must also demand..
That if a child talks back to a parent....they parent has every right to stone the child to death
If someone works on Saturday...they too can be put to death..
Women would not be allowed in the presence of men during menstration
Along with literally hundreds of other rediculous things....
But regardless of that....if we accept the bible and theology at face values...jesus teaches us that we should turn the other cheek and let god be the judge...
you dont have to agree with or support gays and their union....but if you are right....and god damns all gays....well then...let god handle it....you just live your life as best as you can...focus on being the best person you can be....
now that is if we accept that the bible and theology in general is valid and true....
but unfortunately there is zero tangible evidence to support the existence of the god of the bible....or any organized religion for that matter.....there just isnt any evidence....
i personally believe that there very well could be some...supreme factor out there...at least as it applies to the earth and its inhabitants...by virtue of the existence of matter...ie..rocks...water..people...sticks...atoms...and so forth...we can not yet explain spontaneous existence....it just doesnt occur in our experience..there is always a cause...and present matter....
so whatever made....matter....be it an intelligence...or a natural process...like an acorn becoming a tree...that in my opinion is "God" but....there is no evidence for organized religions version of god....that god is all to human...with traits like anger...jealousy...he wants us to give tithe to church.....that all smacks to me of human motivation and manipulation....we see the same thing in our politics today....the bible..i believe was concieved and written by man...in an honest attempt to explain what we at that time couldnt comprehend....with a fair dose of human agenda thrown in for good measure...
But...it is a provable tangible FACT that there are people out there...who do care for...and love one another....but they happen to be of the same sex....but they DO exist
why do we give more weight to somthing with no tangible evidence? We make decisions based upon baseless assumptions...and deny factual real people..provable people their right to make a life commitment though marriage.....
doesnt make sense to me....
the fact is..that about a week and a half ago..BEFORE the ban was overturned.....we all went to work....paid rediculous prices for gas.....some of us were taxed unfairly....we had to deal with crime....we loved those we loved....we lived out lives as we wanted to the best of our ability.....
and now...AFTER the ban overturn....we still have to go to work....pay for gas...pay taxes....deal with crime....and we still love those we love....and we will continue to live our lives to the best of out ability...
our lives...havent changed...its all the same....the only difference is those that were formerly denied a human basic right....now have it....and i think that is wonderful....
we dont have to agree with it...or disagree....either way...our lives are still ours....and nothing has changed...
it doesnt make sense to get worked up about somthing that doesnt affect you...odds are if you are opposed to gay marriage...you dont frequently associate with or probably even see gay people...just other heterosexual people....its not even a part of your daily life.....so...just let it be...
if god doesnt like it....then he'll deal with it.....but if he doesnt exist in the way in which many of us believe..
than we are senslessly denying other human beings the ability to live THEIR lives as they will....and that my friends just isnt right